Our family had what felt to me like a life challenging event just over a week ago. My partner was in a motorbike accident. Don’t panic, surprisingly he didn’t suffer too many injuries and is recovering remarkably well.

How a moment changes everything

I will never forget the phone call he made to tell me he had been in an accident. So many things rushed through my mind. But the most calming, and surprising thing, I focused on the fact that he called me. He spoke to me. Never someone on his behalf. I knew he was alive and breathing. That in itself was so important!

I also noted that our connection was so strong that as much as I wanted to panic, and did deep down, I could stay strong on the outside. I held things together for my children. I organised what needed doing and made sure everything was in good order. Then, after all this was done, I panicked, worried, and cried.

Helping hands

It is moments like this when you also truly appreciate those around you. Our au pair looked after my children in the evening, putting in much more than we would have expected of her, so I could visit him.

Our friends and family rallied round us, offering the best support they could too. Some by phone and others by their physical presence.

Reflection of life

This past week has shown me that I can be strong and hold life together when in the past it may have fallen apart.

I realise my partnership with my boyfriend is so special and strong

We have got such wonderful friends and family around us

Conclusion

I couldn’t be happier! Yes an accident has occurred, but there is just so much I can be grateful for that has come out of it.

Remember; those silver linings are amazing! DO NOT ignore them